My days as a stay-at-home mother pretty much start out the same way each morning. After a night of waking every 3-4 hours to feed and change my newborn, I usually wake to the sound of my son sneaking in my bedroom to grab the iPad (a no-no on school mornings) or to the sound of my toddler sweetly saying “mama” until I stir. This all sounds harmless enough except that it happens right around 5:30 am everyday. And the sweetness lasts for a total of about 5 minutes. Then…reality hits.
Currently, my newborn is cosleeping with me for comfort due to an adverse affect to something that is in my breastmilk. The doctor and I have narrowed it down to one of three things: coffee, whey protein, and/or dairy. So far, his symptoms of vomiting everything he eats up have lessened since eliminating my one cup of coffee a day, however there are still some moments still where I wake with a nice splash of vomit to the face or a full serving of BM down my shirt. Needless to say, my laundry duties have increased 10 fold. Perfect timing for eliminating my precious coffee! AHH!!!!
Anyway, as a result of this minor hiccup, my husband is sleeping on the couch as the growling gurgles coming from our smallest cause him anxiety-ridden sleepless nights. He also thinks its more important that I get the rest needed for the long hours of my day ahead and to be able to comfortably feed the baby without any worry of waking him up. I couldn’t feel more blessed for this. As my husband wakes at 4am for work anyway, this also means that I have help in the wee hours of the morning when my toddler decides she wants to scream for attention. WIN/WIN
As I sit here at the computer, I’m thinking about my years spent as a mother and how much has changed as a result. Prior to the birth of my 2nd and 3rd children, I still used to wake up at 4:30am every morning. But, it would be to cook a tray full of chicken breasts and sweet potatoes, and a pot full of brown rice in order to take my 5 mini meals to work with me. I’d head to the gym at 5:30 am to get in my first of two sessions of cardio in before seeing my first client. I’d begin my work day by training clients in the gym from 6:00am-4:00pm with an 1.5 hour break to lift weights and do another round of cardio. I’d head home to pick my son up from Pre-K, cook dinner, bathe him and read to him and head to bed to start all over again the next day. In short, I was a machine. A pure machine.
Nowadays, my schedule looks quite a bit different. I still wake early, but it’s not by choice to the sound of an alarm. My children are my alarms now and I’m at their beck and call. There are no chicken breasts and sweet potatoes cooking in the oven. There are no morning sessions of cardio. Instead, there are the incredible tasks of juggling three children who want nothing more than my attention and care. So far today, I’ve been able to accomplish getting three children dressed, fed and out the door for school drop off, stop at the store with my two smallest, and head back home for morning snack time. There’s a large basket of laundry staring at me, a happy toddler face covered in cereal and smoothie in a high chair reaching for me, and a gurgling and cooing baby in the crib across the room who is probably prepping another explosive diaper for me to change. Do I have time for myself? Sure… I work out, eat well and even shower. (!!!) But not before tackling a day full of meltdowns, cuddles, dirty faces, smelly diapers, and sticky hands. And I can’t say that I have the incredible drive, but I still do these things because it’s important. I no longer do things for the sake of proving anything to myself. I do them out of love.
This is why I’m deciding to blog about my daily happenings as a mom instead of only about food and fitness. Because at the end of the day, I’ve spent the majority of my hours as a mom and have a hell of a lot more to share about that than more “How-to’s” on how to shred those last pesky 5 lbs of fat off your ass. So please feel free to follow along and read my posts. If you’re a mom, a soon-to-be mother, or someone who just loves reading mommy blogs, please visit my site http://www.opalmom.com where I will share my experiences and strategies on how I get through my day as a mother. I’ll also be posting my reviews of different services, products and places relevant to being a mother.
My way of doing things includes 4 things: Organize, Prioritize, Act and Let Go making up the acronym OPAL. I hope to inspire and share with other mothers so please send along any comments, questions, or stories! I’d love to hear them!